This is something that many people find difficult. Now, I'm aiming this at young adults. College aged, mostly. But you can use some of these methods if you are in high school or college graduates. So here are some basic tips to getting a date.
1. Be confident. If you don't think you're any good, it makes it a lot harder for you to find someone.
2. Just ask him/her out. He or she is probably scared to ask you out. So if you go for it, it might actually work! You have to just go for it!
3. Do not obsess over one girl or guy if you aren't with her or him. This just makes you seem desperate. There are other people out there too!
4. Go out, meet people, have fun. Do not stay at home and do nothing. Do something! Anything! It will make you more interesting.
5. Nothing to talk about? See #4.
6. Keep yourself healthy. Eat healthy and exercise. You don't have to be a body builder or personal trainer or anything, but being healthy is attractive.
7. Have your own interests. You will always have stories to tell and things to talk about.
8. Don't be mean. Making fun of people or anything else is not the way to get a girlfriend or boyfriend. Being nice and respectful IS the way!
9. Go for a kiss! Even if he or she isn't ready, at least he or she will know what your intentions are! If you play along as "just a friend" for too long, he or she could just move on.
10. If he or she has told you he or she doesn't like you, move on. There are tons of other people out there. So if you have been rejected, find someone else!
1. Be confident. If you don't think you're any good, it makes it a lot harder for you to find someone.
2. Just ask him/her out. He or she is probably scared to ask you out. So if you go for it, it might actually work! You have to just go for it!
3. Do not obsess over one girl or guy if you aren't with her or him. This just makes you seem desperate. There are other people out there too!
4. Go out, meet people, have fun. Do not stay at home and do nothing. Do something! Anything! It will make you more interesting.
5. Nothing to talk about? See #4.
6. Keep yourself healthy. Eat healthy and exercise. You don't have to be a body builder or personal trainer or anything, but being healthy is attractive.
7. Have your own interests. You will always have stories to tell and things to talk about.
8. Don't be mean. Making fun of people or anything else is not the way to get a girlfriend or boyfriend. Being nice and respectful IS the way!
9. Go for a kiss! Even if he or she isn't ready, at least he or she will know what your intentions are! If you play along as "just a friend" for too long, he or she could just move on.
10. If he or she has told you he or she doesn't like you, move on. There are tons of other people out there. So if you have been rejected, find someone else!
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