How long do you think it is still 'okay' to live with parents? Obviously, yes, it is different from person to person. But what do you think makes it okay to live with your parents for longer? When is it really time to move out?
Personally, I went to university at age 17. I lived with my parents for the two summers in between. But I didn't live with my parents when I was at post secondary school. I didn't live with them once I graduated either. I was able to support myself. Just barely, but I could do it. I don't intend to move back in with them unless I have hit rock bottom ... Even more than I already have!
I know some people who are 25 or 26 ... Still living with their parents. Maybe it is smart of them, they can save up lots of money. Especially because the people that I know have full time jobs. imagine making $30,000 a year and not having to pay rent, food, and all that. Maybe they are the smart ones after all!
I guess it depends on the person. I need my independence. It isn't like I hate my parents, but I do hate living with them (it was like torture!). I like being my own adult. They can come up and visit me, that's pretty cool, always nice to see them. But not to live with them. I need to be on my own. I don't think that I should be relying on them for everything. I need to be making my own food, cleaning my whole house, dealing with normal things (ex. mouse infestation), and making normal decisions.
Sometimes it is difficult, but I really do enjoy it. Growing up is important. I'd rather do it now than later. Yeah, I have a lot more responsibilities, but I find it is a lot more fun as well. I mean, I don't have a curfew or as many rules. I can have my friends stay over anytime. My boyfriend doesn't have to sleep in another room. Heck, I'm allowed to kiss him! I can listen to my type of music whenever I want. I just don't want to give up these benefits!
Living on your own at a young age is, of course, a challenge. But I think it is worthwhile to grow up and not have to rely on your parents for everything. Personally, it is working out for me anyway.
Personally, I went to university at age 17. I lived with my parents for the two summers in between. But I didn't live with my parents when I was at post secondary school. I didn't live with them once I graduated either. I was able to support myself. Just barely, but I could do it. I don't intend to move back in with them unless I have hit rock bottom ... Even more than I already have!
I know some people who are 25 or 26 ... Still living with their parents. Maybe it is smart of them, they can save up lots of money. Especially because the people that I know have full time jobs. imagine making $30,000 a year and not having to pay rent, food, and all that. Maybe they are the smart ones after all!
I guess it depends on the person. I need my independence. It isn't like I hate my parents, but I do hate living with them (it was like torture!). I like being my own adult. They can come up and visit me, that's pretty cool, always nice to see them. But not to live with them. I need to be on my own. I don't think that I should be relying on them for everything. I need to be making my own food, cleaning my whole house, dealing with normal things (ex. mouse infestation), and making normal decisions.
Sometimes it is difficult, but I really do enjoy it. Growing up is important. I'd rather do it now than later. Yeah, I have a lot more responsibilities, but I find it is a lot more fun as well. I mean, I don't have a curfew or as many rules. I can have my friends stay over anytime. My boyfriend doesn't have to sleep in another room. Heck, I'm allowed to kiss him! I can listen to my type of music whenever I want. I just don't want to give up these benefits!
Living on your own at a young age is, of course, a challenge. But I think it is worthwhile to grow up and not have to rely on your parents for everything. Personally, it is working out for me anyway.
